Man Loses Over $1 Million in Online Dating Scam
By Greg Collier
A Roseville, California resident has reported losing more than $1 million in a prolonged online dating scam, according to local law enforcement. The case highlights how romance scams can escalate over time, using emotional manipulation, fabricated emergencies, and false financial promises to extract large sums of money from victims.
What Happened
According to police, the victim met a woman on a dating website in March 2025. After moving their conversations to iMessage, the relationship quickly became serious. Over time, the victim began sending her money.
The scam escalated when the woman claimed that a family member had died and left her approximately 455 kilograms of gold. She told the victim that she needed more than $1 million to release the gold from storage and cover related fees, including supposed taxes owed in Thailand and the United States.
At a later stage, someone claiming to be an attorney contacted the victim, requesting an additional $700,000 for legal assistance. The victim was told that he would ultimately receive $9 million once the gold was released.
The requests did not stop there. The suspect later claimed her daughter had become critically ill and needed a kidney transplant, asking for even more money to cover medical expenses.
Over several months, the victim transferred funds for what he believed were:
- Gold storage and release fees
- International and U.S. tax obligations
- Legal services
- Medical expenses
By July 2025, the victim realized the situation was likely a scam and filed a report with the FBI, though he has not yet received a follow-up, according to police.
Scam Breakdown
This case follows a well-documented romance scam pattern:
- Rapid emotional bonding after initial online contact
- Transition to private messaging platforms outside the dating site
- Invented financial windfalls (gold, inheritances, investments)
- Urgent fees and taxes required before funds can be released
- Authority figures (lawyers, agents) introduced to add credibility
- Medical emergencies used to prolong and intensify the scam
Each new crisis creates urgency and discourages victims from slowing down or seeking independent verification.
Red Flags
Authorities say warning signs in cases like this include:
- Requests for money from someone you have never met in person
- Claims involving large inheritances or valuable assets that require upfront fees
- Pressure to act quickly due to taxes, legal deadlines, or medical emergencies
- Use of wire transfers, gift cards, or cryptocurrency
- Third parties suddenly entering the conversation to demand payment
What Authorities Recommend
Police urge the public to use extreme caution when interacting with people met online, especially when money is involved. Key guidance includes:
- Do not send money to someone you have only met online
- Never wire funds or send gift cards to someone you haven’t fully vetted
- Be skeptical of stories involving inheritances, gold, or overseas assets
- Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or financial professional before sending money
- Report suspected scams to local law enforcement and federal authorities
Final Thoughts
Romance scams are increasingly sophisticated and can unfold over months or even years. They rely on trust, emotional attachment, and carefully staged crises rather than technical hacking. This case serves as a reminder that any online relationship involving repeated financial requests should be treated with extreme caution, regardless of how convincing or emotionally compelling the story may seem.











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