Greg's Corner

Holiday Scammers Target Dating App Users

By Greg Collier

As the holiday season approaches, many people find themselves seeking connection and companionship. No one wants to be alone during this festive time, but the desire for intimacy and warmth can make people more vulnerable to scams, particularly those that prey on trust and fear. A concerning scam has recently emerged in the Hilton Head Island, South Carolina area, targeting unsuspecting individuals on dating apps. Fraudsters are impersonating law enforcement officers, exploiting fears of legal trouble, and pressuring victims into sending money.

In a recent incident reported to Beaufort County deputies, a North Carolina resident fell victim to this deceptive scheme. The victim had been chatting with a woman on a dating app whose profile claimed she was 20 years old. After the exchange of risqué photos, although the victim reportedly did not send any himself, he received a call from someone posing as a local investigator. The caller claimed the woman was actually underage and involved her so-called “father” in the conversation, further fabricating a story about therapy expenses and demanding payment. The victim, frightened by the false accusations, sent thousands of dollars before realizing it was a scam.

This scheme is not new, but its prevalence highlights the importance of vigilance, especially during a season when people may feel more emotionally vulnerable. Fraudsters often use intimidation tactics, posing as authority figures and even using real names of law enforcement officials to appear credible. Their goal is to create a sense of urgency that pushes victims to act before they have time to think critically.

While connecting with others online can be a wonderful way to meet people, it’s essential to stay cautious and protect yourself. Scammers rely on panic and embarrassment to manipulate their targets, so staying calm and informed is your best defense.

Never send money to someone claiming to be a law enforcement officer or anyone pressuring you to pay to avoid legal trouble. Real police officers will not demand immediate payments or use threats to resolve situations. Additionally, always verify the identity of anyone claiming to be in a position of authority. You can independently contact the agency they claim to represent using official contact information.

Be cautious about sharing personal information or engaging in intimate conversations with people you’ve just met online. While the allure of a connection can be strong, take the time to verify the person’s identity through safe channels.

Using trusted digital platforms for transactions and setting strong privacy controls on your social media and communication apps can also provide an added layer of security. If you suspect you’re being targeted, document the interaction and report it to law enforcement. Reaching out early can help stop the scam from escalating and protect others in your community.

The holidays are meant to be a time of joy, togetherness, and warmth. No one deserves to feel isolated during this season, but it’s crucial to balance the desire for connection with awareness of potential risks. Scammers exploit loneliness and vulnerability, but staying informed and cautious can help you avoid falling victim to their schemes.

If you or someone you know encounters a suspicious situation online, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. Remember, genuine relationships are built on trust and mutual respect, not fear or coercion. Protect yourself this holiday season so you can focus on building connections that bring happiness, not harm.