Greg's Corner

Romance scam victim falls victim to second scam

By Greg Collier

The quest for love has transcended physical boundaries, with countless individuals turning to the internet in hopes of finding their soulmate. However, this modern-day fairytale is not without its dark side.

A widow from Long Island, who sought companionship during the isolating times of the pandemic, found herself ensnared in a romance scam that cost her a staggering $468,000.

The scam began with a seemingly charming engineer from the Philippines, who, over six months, gained the widow’s trust and affection. But as their relationship progressed, so did his requests for money, under the guise of protecting them both from harm. It was only after nearly half a million dollars had vanished that the widow realized the bitter truth of the deception.

However, the ordeal didn’t end there. In a desperate attempt to recover her losses, the widow turned to online support groups, only to fall victim to another layer of fraudsters posing as FBI agents promising to retrieve her funds. These individuals purported to be agents affiliated with the Internet Crime Complaint Center, an entity known for investigating online scams. Despite their assurances of no upfront fees for their assistance, the victim soon found herself sending money to these deceitful impostors posing as investigators.

Regrettably, this scenario is all too familiar. Scammers actively target individuals who share their scam experiences on social media platforms. They often exploit these posts by leaving comments suggesting that they successfully retrieved their lost funds with the help of a supposed recovery service. However, these purported recovery services are nothing more than additional scams in disguise. Similar to other scam tactics, they manipulate victims by continuously demanding money under the guise of securing the promised recovery. Despite assurances of results, they never deliver on their promises, leaving victims further deceived and financially exploited.

Scam recovery services should be approached with extreme caution, as they are typically illegitimate operations. The reality is that the only credible entity with a chance of potentially recovering funds for scam victims is law enforcement. However, even this prospect is often slim and contingent upon various factors. It’s crucial to recognize that legitimate law enforcement agencies, such as the FBI, will never initiate contact with a scam victim via social media without prior solicitation. Furthermore, they will never request money from a victim. Awareness of these red flags can help individuals avoid falling deeper into the clutches of scammers posing as saviors.

As a general rule, never send money to someone you’ve met online, especially if they pressure you or concoct elaborate tales to justify their request. If you suspect you’ve been targeted by a scammer, reach out to trusted friends, family members, or authorities for guidance and assistance.